Today’s find your flow message is about a big block we all tend to have in different ways, and the key to shifting it that helps you unlock more ease, purpose, fulfillment and prosperity. 

I was at the hot springs yesterday thinking about something I’m wanting to create and some of the results I’d love to have. I started curiously digging a little deeper as to what was the root of the block and why I wasn’t feeling completely aligned even though it would up-level my life so much. 

I started to see where I don’t fully believe it’s possible yet, or hold the vibration of having it. I also saw where there was some inner conflict with familial patterns that I’ve carried since early childhood that’s impacted my identity and fears. I thought I had cleared most of this, but being a new mom it’s amazing what’s resurfaced for some deeper healing. 

Some of these identities also come down to people pleasing in a much less overt way than it used to come up for me. This wasn’t saying yes when I wanted to say no. Or constantly staying busy, or saying yes to what other people thought I should or could do…these are deeply rooted expectations/desires/behaviors that somehow get wired about what it means to be lovable or “fit in” in your family or peer group. 

Some of it spoken and most of it unspoken–but expected. Of course we’re all worthy of love and most every parent wants what’s best for their children and loves them regardless. However, sometimes the little behavior shifts when we vary from that desired path is evident and maybe we consciously play a little smaller, say no to something or a way of being we’d love to explore. 

We all have certain conscious and unconscious pictures about what we believe makes us safe, worthy and lovable. 

What we have to achieve, how we have to be in the world, how we act, what we say yes to…the list can go on and on.

What’s most helpful is building awareness and love for yourself as you are. The more you gain clarity about who you are and the more comfortable you feel about yourself, the more you can honor and show up on your unique path. 

There’s a difference between what you want and what you presently allow space for. The vibration you can hold and the worthiness you experience all comes down to two things:

1. Your Identity  

2. Your Connection to your soul/purpose/knowing… 

The more you connect to your higher purpose and to your essence as a being of light where anything is possible that’s aligned…the less weighed down you will be. This means you can quiet the stagnation, the feelings of scarcity, victim mentality, fear and loneliness. 

The outcome of choosing to be in your flow more consistently is you cultivate deeper awareness and knowing that calls you into your alignment and purpose. It’s easier to say yes to those acts of self-love, self-care and knowing each day. The outside opinions and noise get quieter and don’t get into your energetic space the same way. 

Some questions to help guide you:

Who you are? 
What do you truly desire? 
What’s working and what could maybe use an upgrade?
Who do you love to show up for? 
Who do you love to grow with? 
When do you feel safest to be yourself? 
What lights you up? 
What do you believe is possible? 

What does today’s message bring up for you? How will you take some time to reflect on these questions today or this weekend? 

With love, 
Laurin