Today’s find your flow message is all about trust and you creating your own definition of success based on your highest values and goals. 

For me trusting myself means I can say yes to the statements below. 

Check in for yourself how you feel when you read each question, can you easily answer yes, do you feel discomfort anywhere in your body or being? 

Allow this to be a checkpoint for yourself. 

• Do you hear your subtle guidance? 
• Do you say yes when you feel inspired? 
• Can you say no when your connected vs just no from your mind or fear? 
• Do you hold yourself accountable to feel the difference between your fears, scarcity, doubts and your trust in yourself as spirit to create? 
• Do you choose nourishing and healthy habits? 
• To follow-through when it’s time to move on from something? 
• Do you trust yourself to show up for your what’s in your most aligned interest?

Are you ready to be that for yourself? 

This is truly being a master of your life. 

In my 20’s I realized for me success was no longer what I thought it was. Everything I was chasing, everything I thought I wanted to have didn’t matter as much to be anymore. What I really craved was diving into actions aligned with my highest values. The rest was just a reflection of the linking what was most inspiring for me.

What will bring you the most fulfillment is first finding success on your own terms. 

Sometimes, there will be doubts and fears, but deeply knowing you’re on your own path and that you are always more than ok is priceless. From there of course, sky’s the limit. You can link, you can create, manifest, attract, magnetize whatever you want. You Get to Choose. 

I’m in the process of doing this again currently. This is a cycle that gets easier each time you up level because you have built the foundation of who you are in your being first. 

What you create is a reflection of your congruent desires, openness, flexibility and certainty.  

What creates meaningful success is knowing who you are on a deep level. Being comfortable being with yourself and actually loving those unique parts of you. 

Without knowing and respecting yourself it’s easy to get swept up in others definitions of success and shoulds. Remember, happiness and stability aren’t based on those external factors. 

Those come and go and you’re always left with yourself. 

I heard this quote I loved, “love yourself first because you are who you’re with for your entire life.” 

As much as it’s wonderful to deeply know someone else and be seen yourself, no one can honor and show up for you like you can.

I invite you to be with this thought about truly being with,  trusting and loving yourself this weekend. 

If you find it challenging or this hasn’t been a consistent way of being for you…get curious. 

No judgment, no beating yourself up—just get curious about why not. 

What reasons do you have?  

Who do you surround yourself with? 

Where do you perceive limitations? 
Where do you attach to others ideals of success or let their information come in? 

What would it look like to have the discipline for yourself this week to show up for yourself? To choose yourself in those moments where maybe there have been habits that give up or seek comfort? 

Life is a journey and of course we may not do this 100% of the time, but once you have a solid foundation of showing up for yourself in this way you notice and feel when you’re not. 

You will seek to clean out your energy, to get curious, to choose consciousness, to remember to focus on your values and choose what you want for your life. Being in your flow and own knowing will be a non-negotiable. 

Overall, as spirit do you trust yourself? Are you in touch with yourself in this way?  

This isn’t about your mind saying yes or figuring something out, it’s about your belief in your path and knowing that you will figure it out…Simply because that’s who you are. 

We are all masters of our own lives. 

Remember, you won’t be given anything you can’t handle. Anything that isn’t meant for you. And only what actually supports your growth and greater vision will come your way even when the form seems challenging.

Look forward to hearing from you. 

Love,

Laurin